Wednesday, 3 October 2012

特别的一天。。10月3 日。。 / A special day - 3 October

今天。。很特别! 怎么个特别呢?那。。就得从昨天开始说起。。
昨天,一位朋友打电话过来,说她压力很大,在聊天的过程中,50% 都在哭。。现在的我都忘了自己如何让她平静下来。。为了鼓励她迎接今天的到来。。我说我会打电话给她叫她起身。。她的时间早上七点。。我的时间3。30早上。。
今天早上。。当我正要打电话给她。。我的电话响了。。一接,只听到哭泣的声音。。她一直问我她是不是患上精神病了,还是压力太大。。虽然,当时的我不肯定发生什么事。。我只知道,我得让她冷静下来。。我一直告诉她,她只是压力太大。。这个对话,重复发生大约30分钟。。过后,她终于冷静下来。。过后,开始引导她说出什么事让她那么压力。这个过程大约用了2 小时。。过后,就什么都聊一下。。整个聊天过程,差不多4小时。。
挂之前,她说真的很感谢我那么帮她。。不然,他真的不知道该怎么办。。
挂了后,我自己在想。。在伦敦的时候,自己有想过想当coach。。经过这四小时的谈话,不知怎的,突然觉得自己是真的有潜能。。或许,我真的该想想。。自己到底对自己未来有什么期望。。
今天,绝对是有趣,有意义的一天!




Today is very special..how special is it? To talk about this special day..We need to go back to yesterday!
Yesterday, a friend called and she said she was very stressful..in the conversation, 50% of the conversation, she was just crying..Now, i cant remember how i make her calm down and feel better..anyway..to motivate her to get ready for today, i promised her that i will call her at 7am today..which mean 3.30am in my time..
Today, when i want to call her, my phone rang..I picked up the phone and everything that heard were she was crying and asked me whether she is mental or she just too stressful..At that point i have no idea what had happened, but i know i need to calm her down..So, i keep convince her that she is just too stressful..This conversation happened for 30 minutes...then she calm down..after this, i guide her to tell me what had happened..this whole process took us about 2 hours..then we just chit chat..the whole conversation was about 4 hours..
before we end the conversation, she kept say thank you and said she do not know what will happened if she never talk to me..
After this crazy long conversation, it remind me when i was in London, i said i would like to be a coach..now, i really feel like i do have the potential and i should really think about it!
Today is a very special day! Very meaningful day!















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