今天看了一部戏叫‘火’。是一部印度片。1980/90 年代拍摄。。是关于印度怎样对待同性恋。整部戏的内容及文化分享超赞！相信每个人看后都会有所不同的感想。。毕竟，那些都是印度文化里，大部分人看不到的悲哀及痛苦！
戏里两个女主角都是为人妻。住在印度人说的大家庭里（全部儿子，媳妇，孙子，阿公，阿嘛，住在同一间屋里） A的丈夫13年没与A发生性关系；B的丈夫在外面有另一个女人！可是，这两个Kanasai 的男人，竟要求A和B当个称职的妻子！超不公的！
后来，A和B因为对方的痛苦而在一起安慰对方！可是戏中的男人说到不关他们的事。
我觉得庆幸因为不是出生在那个年代! 我不能接受女生应该要永远跟着自己的丈夫（虽然那个丈夫是KANASAI的），女生的唯一责任就是生孩子，煮饭，洗衣！
如果婚姻就是为了这些。。我只能说。。不好意思！ 我想。。我自己可以养活自己！
Today, watch a film from India , 'FIRE'.This movie was release at around 1980/90/.Its about how India see homosexual at that time. The contents and the cultural sharing part are awesome. I believe anyone that watched this movie will need time for themselves to reflect! because they show those parts that happen in life but we not neccessary able to see.
The 2 heroin in the movie are both wife and they stay in big family (means all sons, in-laws, grandma, grandpa all stay together!). A's husband has not have sex with her for 13years; B's husband has another girlfriend outside! Even though both of them havnt complete the duty of a husband, but they ask their wife to complete the wife duties! its so not fair!
Because of the frustration of their life, they started to support each other and started to have relation. BUT according to the guys in the movie, this happen is not their fault!
I feel so lucky that i am not born in that time.I cannot accept that a wife should always follow and obey the husband even though their husband is suck!The main responsibilty for women is to be a wife, give birth to child, cooking, wash cloths.
If marriage is all about that, i will say ' I AM SORRY! I THINK I EARN ENOUGH MONEY TO SUPPORT MYSELF!'
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