一个完美的假日! / a perfect day off!

今天放假！虽然，比平常更早起身。。但值得！
一大早，就跟2个朋友出去看戏！虽然，戏的结尾没那么好；但还不错。今天是Robyn的最后一天。。所以我们就一起去看戏！
看完戏后，我们各自做各自的事。我去了做Gym。今天做了一个小时！竟没觉得太累！今天是第三天了！突然觉得自己开始长大了。。觉得健康重要！
做完后，我就到SGS Mall走走，Landmark 竟然在大减价！买了几样我本想买的winnie the pooh的东西。。基本上都是20%，但，由于我是会员。。所以。。有更多的折扣！超攒的！
过后，到dorabjee买点豆奶。。买点这个，买点那个。。
买完后，便回sangam!
今天超充实的。。希望将来每一个放假都那么充实！

Its day off today! Even though, i need to wake up earlier than user but its worth it!
Today went to movie with 2 friends and also today is Robyn last day..thats why went to movie with her..The ending of the movie is bad but i quite like the movie!
After movie, we proceed with our own thing..i went to gym! today..i work out for 1 hour..surprisingly i am not as tired as i thought! Today is the 3rd day i been to gym, suddenly i feel like i am more mature..as i care for my health! haha..
After gym, i went to  SGS mall..landmark on sale..i bought some winnie the pooh item that i want to buy before.they all 20% discount and because i own the membership card..so i get more discount..so awesome!
Then, i went to dorabjee to buy some soy milk..and buy this and buy that...after that take a rikhsaw home!
today is so so awesome! hope  all day off in future are all like that!

一部戏后的感想 ~~ / feeling after a movie ~~

今天看了一部戏叫‘火’。是一部印度片。1980/90 年代拍摄。。是关于印度怎样对待同性恋。整部戏的内容及文化分享超赞！相信每个人看后都会有所不同的感想。。毕竟，那些都是印度文化里，大部分人看不到的悲哀及痛苦！

戏里两个女主角都是为人妻。住在印度人说的大家庭里（全部儿子，媳妇，孙子，阿公，阿嘛，住在同一间屋里） A的丈夫13年没与A发生性关系；B的丈夫在外面有另一个女人！可是，这两个Kanasai 的男人，竟要求A和B当个称职的妻子！超不公的！

后来，A和B因为对方的痛苦而在一起安慰对方！可是戏中的男人说到不关他们的事。

我觉得庆幸因为不是出生在那个年代! 我不能接受女生应该要永远跟着自己的丈夫（虽然那个丈夫是KANASAI的），女生的唯一责任就是生孩子，煮饭，洗衣！ 

如果婚姻就是为了这些。。我只能说。。不好意思！ 我想。。我自己可以养活自己！

Today, watch a film from India , 'FIRE'.This movie was release at around 1980/90/.Its about how India see homosexual at that time. The contents and the cultural sharing part are awesome. I believe anyone that watched this movie will need time for themselves to reflect! because they show those parts that happen in life but we not neccessary able to see. 

The 2 heroin in the movie are both wife and they stay in big family (means all sons, in-laws, grandma, grandpa all stay together!). A's husband has not have sex with her for 13years; B's husband has another girlfriend outside! Even though both of them havnt complete the duty of a husband, but they ask their wife to complete the wife duties! its so not fair!

Because of the frustration of their life, they started to support each other and started to have relation. BUT according to the guys in the movie, this happen is not their fault!

I feel so lucky that i am not born in that time.I cannot accept that a wife should always follow and obey the husband even though their husband is suck!The main responsibilty for women is to be a wife, give birth to child, cooking, wash cloths.

If marriage is all about that, i will say ' I AM SORRY! I THINK I EARN ENOUGH MONEY TO SUPPORT MYSELF!'

超忙的一天 / a super busy day

今天。。超忙的。。从早上10点。。忙到傍晚6。30。。真的忙到夸张！
今天可以说是1年半以来最忙的活动第一天!
昨天晚上沉思了一晚..今天跟同事说了..我们得做点什么..我不要再投诉..我要做点什么!
突然觉得自己成熟了一点..
希望这次事情后..自己会成熟点..不要再那么的幼稚 了!
也是真的该换个瓶子了!
新的瓶子..新的开始!
加油!

today..i am so so busy! Busy from 10am till 6.30pm. its so ridiculously busy!
today..is the longest day in my life as apm in the 1st day of the event!
after reflection from last night, i decided to talk with my collegue...i want to do something..i do not want to just keep complain!
suddenly, i feel like i get a bit mature!
hopefully after this incident, i get more mature.
need to say bye bye with childish!
its time to change the bottle!
new bottle..new beginning!
Ganbatteh!

学习？ 学习！ / learning? learning!

这两天。。突然，学到很多东西！
突然想知道什么是尊重？ 什么是宽容？ 什么是后悔？ 什么是工作？ 什么是体谅？ 什么是团队？ 什么是人？！
我因为一个人，对另一个人动了气。怃心自问。。值得吗？但是，如果不是这样另一个人永远不知道原来事情已经到了那样的地步！虽然，到今天我还是觉得有点对不起他，但还是得向前走！
人是个什么样的东西？怎么那么复杂？为什么权利，贪心，无知，笨蛋，自以为是， 可以把人变得那么的白痴？
也不明白。明明一个那么好的团队。。可以因为人性。。变得那么的混乱？我怃心自问。。我可能有时候懒惰些，自私些，但我永远做最好的我。。为团队卖力。。尽量的朝团队的梦想前进。。为什么有人可以那么自私？
以前读书时，常说‘忍一时，风平浪静；退一步，海阔天空’。。14个字。。笔画也不太多。当时觉得。。有谁做不到？
今天的我。。问了自己。。自己真的没办法作到！ 宽容，谈何容易？ 真正作到的又有几个？ 难怪世界那么的不太平。。
还有两个字。尊重。。笔画超多。。做起来，难吗？ 答案是。。超难！
在我26年的生涯中！ 我真正尊重的人不少。。没办法尊重的人真的不多。十个手指数不完。。可是。。今天的我。。不明白为什么我不可以尊重及原谅这个人？
话说回来。我不是没努力过。。可能我的努力不够。可是一个巴掌。。拍不出任何掌声！为什么每次都是我先让步？我想。。容忍是有个限度的。。
突然觉得。。是时候停止投诉了！ 是时候做点什么了。人生短暂。。

I learned so much in this two days!
Suddenly i want to know what mean by respect, forgiveness, regret, work, tolerance, team and the most important what is human?
Because of someone, i throw my frustration to another person. I ask myself, is it worth it? But, if this never happen, that another person never know that the situation is so bad at this stage!
What is human? why is it so complicated? why power, greediness, stupidity, proud of herself, can turn a person to look so ugliness stupid?
I don understand, we have such a good team, because of personalities, it can become so complicated! i honestly ask myself, may be some time i am a bit lazy, may be sometime i am a bit selfish, but i understand what are the goals of the team. Whatever i did/do, are always towards the goals. Why there are people that are so so selfish to just stick their own agenda?
When i was young, there is saying say 'tolerance, bring calm;take a step back, world get bigger and brighten' this is direct translate from the saying. it is only 14 words in mandarin, not difficult to write; at that time, don feel like this is difficult!
But today, i know i cant do it! fogiveness..is not easy at all..no wonder the world is not in peace!
there is 1 more word, respect! in mandarin, it is 2 words and quite difficult in writing it.its even more difficult to do it!
in 26 years, i respected mostly others, those that i do not respect, i can count with my 10 fingers.but today, i do not know why i cant forgive and respect these people.
i ask myself, i try to fix it. may be i din try hard enough. but, why is it always me? why others cant take their step first? why always me? 1 hand never ever can produce claps!
tolerance has limit!
i know i should stop complaning!
i need to do something to fix it!
life is short!